Exploring the Role of Nonviolent Intrapersonal Communication in Enhancing our Self-Concept for Evolution of Responsible Citizenship

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Vedabhyas Kundu
Munazah Shah

Abstract




In contemporary times, a large number of individuals- due to multitude of concerns and challenges- oen find themselves engaging in toxic or violent intrapersonal communication. ey have to face difficult situations, varieties of inner conflicts and suffer from stress. Besides, violent intrapersonal communication leads to a negative self-concept and lowering of self-esteem. It is within this background that introducing nonviolent intrapersonal communication- to be nurtured and practiced in our daily lives- becomes crucial. By practicing nonviolent intrapersonal communication, a toxic inner communication ecosystem is transformed into a healthy one. When elements of nonviolent intrapersonal communication- like self-compassion, loving kindness towards self, avoidance of being judgmental towards self- are assimilated, the negative self-concept changes into a positive one. is paper will precisely look at this dimension using open-ended self-reports of respondents who have been oriented towards practicing nonviolent intrapersonal communication. Further, the paper will gauge on how the positive self-concept, which evolves by the use of nonviolent intrapersonal communication, gives a direction toward altruistic action, an essential element of responsible citizenship. e overarching goal of the paper is to attempt to develop an intrinsic link between nonviolent intrapersonal communication and its role in the development of a positive self-concept which gives way to altruistic action.




Author Biographies

Vedabhyas Kundu, Gandhi Smriti and Darshan Sami

Programme Officer, Gandhi Smriti and Darshan Samiti.

Ongoing studies: Studying different dimensions of nonviolent communication and its applications in everyday life, looking at the need for integration of nonviolent communication in media literacy initiatives.

India.

Munazah Shah, Senior News Anchor, News 18 Network

Senior News Anchor, News 18 Network
Ongoing studies: Working with Dr Kundu in areas of nonviolent intrapersonal communication, Gandhian approach to communication and the significance of inner transformation

India

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